copied Al.. :p

Your Dominant Intelligence is Musical Intelligence

Every part of your life has a beat, and you're often tapping your fingers or toes. You enjoy sounds of all types, but you also find sound can distract you at the wrong time. You are probably a gifted musician of some sort - even if you haven't realized it. Also a music lover, you tend to appreciate artists of all kinds. You would make a great musician, disc jockey, singer, or composer.

What Kind of Intelligence Do You Have?

aiyah.. so unambitious.. :P

the whole tooth and nothing but the tooth

My wisdom tooth on the lower left of my mouth was bugging me since last Thursday and was miraculously healed on Friday, so that I could go for Reon's 3rd birthday party. :) Samantha, someone I haven't seen in a long while, was there too! Moo came later, after his event at Vivo.

Mummy LiMay and her 3 precious(es), Feon, Keon and Reon

The birthday girl and I

Rare picture with Ariel "Beautiful Eyes" Toh

The pain started again on Saturday and lasted till today! Finally got it extracted, along with the wisdom tooth on the upper right, this afternoon! I know Ailing and my godsis-in-law will disagree with me. But having watched enough shows on pregnant women in labour on Discovery Health Channel, I now know what it means when the preggie screams "get it out of me!". Okie okie... I know labour pain's much worse but that was the closest thing I could find to describe how I felt! The pain that stupid wisdom tooth was causing me was excruciating! I was even talking with a lisp! You know you can rub a bruise on your leg, or scratch a mozzie-bite on your arm and Daddy can fix my sprained ankle by rubbing some ointment on it. But you can't do anything with a toothache!!!! The pain was so annoying that I wanted my cell boys to punch me so hard on my left jaw just so my tooth will fall out! Thank God they didn't, though I think I tempted them. :P

Eating has never felt so torturous! Just closing my mouth to chew was painful. I didn't even finish the nice fish beehoon at Little Jumbo. By dinner time at my Aunt Gean's, I was famished. But eating steamboat wasn't easy as well. :(

I was praying so hard that they were able to remove the lower wisdom tooth by extraction because the price list at the dental clinic said "Surgical Removal of Wisdom Tooth: $400 - $500". Like I told many of you, I'd rather spend the money on a luxury commodity than pulling out my tooth! Thank God Almighty that the dentist only needed to make a minor incision on my lower wisdom took before extraction and my upper one just required a no-fuss extraction. All in all:

Extraction of upper right wisdom tooth: $80

Minor surgery on lower left wisdom tooth: $200

Medication: $20

Good riddance to annoying pain caused by a useless tooth: Priceless

Now I'm experiencing a different sort of pain. One which doesn't allow me to talk much. That's a good thing, right? :) Can still taste blood and I've had some blood clots falling on my tongue already. Quite gross.

Mummy dearest has been the most empathetic. Really! Knowing that I had an appointment to remove my very wise teeth, she asked me before she prepared dinner whether I can consume rice. I told her my wounds are painful and requested for porridge. She told me to go get it myself! Furthermore, she made stir-fried beansprouts with salted fish (I had all of 2 beansprouts) and steamed fish eggs, which thankfully are quite soft. Naturally I was still hungry after a sumptuous dinner of no rice, 2 beansprouts and some fish eggs. So I went to buy Maggi Mashed Potato from 7-Eleven. The price inflated by 20 cents! Cheater-bug!

So that was today. Moo assured me that tomorrow will be less painful. 明天会跟好!

lost and found

I had 2 very sobering conversations today. One was in the afternoon with Elaine at Island Creamary, about turning 30, acting my age and finding God's direction for me in the career aspect of my life. The other was with Moo, in the middle of the night, about my direction in work and assessed my interview style. He gave me 3 points out of 10. :( He also brought up that maybe I should look more to God and pray more for Him to reveal His direction for me. Maybe I've been looking at the wrong industries, wrong jobs.

I admit that I haven't been spending much time with God in regards to the career path He wants me to take. And it is sobering and humbling to hear it from 2 people today.

Okie. I will seek first His Kingdom and His righteousness and things will fall into place.

Pray for me to perservere and be disciplined.

attack of the blogthings

Inspi(red) by XH's blog, I have started doing online personality tests again. :) These are from blogthings.

You Belong in Summer

Energetic, creative, and very curious about the world... You're not going to let anything hold you back, especially a cold day. Whether you're chilling out at the beach or partying all night, you live for the warm weather.

What Season Are You?

Your Inner European is French!

Smart and sophisticated. You have the best of everything - at least, *you* think so.

Who's Your Inner European?

Oh.... That's why I like Delifrance. :P

You Are 40% Lady

You tend to make up your rules of etiquette, throwing all conventions aside. And while you try to be a lady (sometimes), your behavior is often quite shocking.

Are You A Lady?

*BURP*

You Should Be a Song Writer

You have the ability to evoke emotion, tell a story, and hook someone... In a very small amount of words, perhaps with some deft rhyming. Even if you can't write music, you can sure write compelling lyrics. Lyrics so good, people will have them stuck in their heads!

What Type of Writer Should You Be?

Ooo... Is that right? How rousing...

You Are 26 Years Old

Under 12: You are a kid at heart. You still have an optimistic life view - and you look at the world with awe. 13-19: You are a teenager at heart. You question authority and are still trying to find your place in this world. 20-29: You are a twentysomething at heart. You feel excited about what's to come... love, work, and new experiences. 30-39: You are a thirtysomething at heart. You've had a taste of success and true love, but you want more! 40+: You are a mature adult. You've been through most of the ups and downs of life already. Now you get to sit back and relax.

What Age Do You Act?

Whew!

On Average, You Would Sell Out For

$305,505

At What Price Would You Sell Out?

Hey.... That's cheap!

You Are 32% Spoiled

You're barely spoiled. You may have some nice things, but you never let them go to your head. You appreciate each gift you're given - and you don't dwell on what you "deserve" to have.

Are You Spoiled?

Who says only kids are spoilt? :P


And in lieu of Tuesday's B&J's free ice-cream day,

You Are Chunky Monkey Ice Cream

Truthfully, you're too spazzy to be chunky - you cheeky monkey!

What Flavor Ben and Jerry's Ice Cream Are You?

aw... so sweet!

Wedding on Saturday


Janice's and Gideon's wedding on Saturday was so sweet! The couple met in China, when Janice, a Singaporean, was there on her DTS outreach, and Gideon, a Filipino, was a missionary there. They had a long-distance relationship, not without their struggles. I'm sure Pris can totally empathise with them. :) Being away from the one you love is hard enough. Allowing your family time to understand and accept the man you love is another obstacle they had to cross. Having an inter-cultural relationship isn't the easiest thing either. The couple shared in the video, made lovingly by Papa Sam, Lynn and Tee, that communication was tough because of the differences in culture and family background. But they made it through 1 and a half years of courtship. It is indeed a divine match intervened by the Divine Matchemaker. Across cultural, geographical and physical barriers.



They managed to spend their first Valentine's Day together this year. Gideon, being a romantic Filipino, gave her flowers which he planted himself and made her sushi.



The wedding was beautiful. Janice look so beautiful in her halter gown with a long embroidered 1920s lace train. Gideon also sang the song when she walked down the aisle. And her eyes were just fixed on him when she was making her way towards the altar. He also sang her a song he wrote for her, called Promise You. It was utterly sweet!!



It was a great time for us to catch up with the multitude of YWAMers who were there. :) Jillian then brought us, Alisa, Saion and myself, to The Tea Party at Six Avenue Centre. Spent out time there having tea and scones, just chilling and waiting for the rain to stop so that jill can go back to study. If I haven't told you about his place yet, place do go check it out. It's a great place to sample the different kinds of teas they have, try the delicious, and I mean DELICIOUS, scones, chill, read a book and watch life pass by. Seriously, go visit the place. Let's go together! :)

Alisa and I while waiting for Saion, who was late :p

Easter Sunday

This year's Easter had been a really reflective time. Reflecting on the reason why we celebrate Easter at all. Reflecting why we believe in what we believe in. Reflecting why we worship Jesus Christ. Coming back to the foot of the cross. Coming back to the heart of worship. Proclaiming God's awesome power and work on the cross. Conquering death so that we can have eternal life. Rejoicing in the resurrection of the Son of God. Even if one doesn't believe that he took the sins of the world upon Himself on the cross, isn't an empty grave prove His resurrection power? I mean, who, other than God, can conquer death and rise again?

In other news, someone left a very sweet testi for me. :)

My Celebrity Look-alikes

My cool celebrity look-alike collage from MyHeritage.com. Get one for yourself.



who the heck is Bonnie Pink?!

lao zha bor

Check ot this blog man! She is how happening! Raps somemore!

i don't get it!

Just some stuff I don't quite get...

1) BK's Mission Statement:

If you can't read it it says: "You have the right to have what you want, exactly when you want it. Because on the menu of life, you are "Today's Special". And tomorrow's. And the day after that. And... well, you get the drift. Yes, that's right. We may be the King, but you my friend, are the almighty ruler. "

What?????? A bit blasphemous, don't you think??


2) Spotted at NTUC FairPrice

Why, tell me why, in the world would I pay $4.95 or any amount of money, for Spam??

happi days

I'm finally connected!!! Yeah!!!

Managed to catch up with Jud last Thursday. :) Went up to her place after lunch at Cafe Cartel. Nice and cozy! Her bedroom's beautiful with a nice aubergine purple wall. Pretty! They've got nice slick furniture and pretty curtains as well. Feel really at home. :) Thumbs up, Xavier and Jud! Borrowed a bag from her for my Aunt Gean's wedding. Heh.

We then proceeded to Peninsular Plaza where she need to get her eyebrows threaded and then walked to Wisma and then to Far East. Saw a nice halter top at Topshop which costs only $16! Wanted to buy it but Jud stopped me with 1 question: Where are you going to wear it to? I couldn't give her an answer. Haha.

Friday was spent at me God-bro's place helping my God-sis-in-law do her 2007 accounts. :) Spent the day with my god-nieces and nephew as well. Fun fun!

Lil Darlings

This was taken by her 3-year-old sister :)

Caught Daphne, my friend from secondary school, on Saturday for lunch at Ramen Ramen and shopping. Wanted to meet my cousins who were at Pacific Plaza for makeovers but didn't in the end. Went down to church to meet Boon and the rest for dinner at Crystal Jade before going down to Jurong East for Bea's grandfather's wake.

Daphne and me, after 13 years :)

Was my Aunt Gean's wedding yesterday. She looked beautiful and it was great seeing my cousins dress up! We took lots of pictures together! White was the theme for day and black for night. :) Shin actually dreamt of my Grand-dad 2 nights before the wedding. We were sitting at a long table celebrating, perhaps my Aunt's wedding. And he was the last to sit down. He looked really happy when he did. During the tea ceremony, Grandma also reminded my Aunt to serve my Grand-dad tea. Brought tears to our eyes. Wished he was here! :(

Ok.. So my tube's black.. But I wore a white skirt :P

Check out my Aunt's pretty bouquet of pink roses with some kind of berry and little pearls :)

Shin left all her make-up at hostel. So as good cousins will do, we met her at the toilet at the restaurant to give her a full make-over. Powder, eye-liner, mascara, blusher, the works! See what a little colour on the face can do? :)

Wong cousins pretty in black!

Missed out on the gender-based discussion in church yesterday tho. Hope it went well. :) SJSMers, please tell me all about it ya? :)

Stoopid Singtel!

finally got my mio installed last tuesday. problems began with the technician sent by former telecommunications monopolist - Singapore Telecoms.

1) The technician they sent is 58 years old. he was configuring my dad's com when he discovered that the window was too small and started to adjust my dad's monitor. i had to tell him that all he has to do is to close the window at the side and the current one will enlarge. he was thus enlightened.

2) we had to call Singtel to get my dad's user-id and password when they should have sent it via snail mail. we went down to apply a month ago, mind you. after calling 1610 a dozen times and listening to horrible music for 45 minutes, we finally got his user-id and password.

3) the so-called technician tried to install the wireless USB adapter we bought on my comp but my comp failed to detect wireless connections. he gave up and told me that i've got to delete some programs before i can do anything else. AND HE LEFT! isn't he suppose to make sure all computers involved are properly configured before he can leave the site???!!!

4) so i was trying to configure my dad's outlook express so that he can access his email. found out that the password's not working. called 1610 and was put on hold for 30 mins because of their "high volume of calls (complaints)" before i got to speak to a human being. she was rude and demanded that she can only reveal the password to the subscriber. i was really pissed and passed the phone to my dad. she then repeated the same password and said she'll reset it and told us to try 10 minutes later. i was like shouting in the background that i gotta dial the damn number and waste my time waiting if it doesn't work. that was exactly what happened.

5) dialed 1610 3 times because if was automatically cut off after waiting 20 minutes. reached the operator who tole me i should be calling the mio helpdesk. why the bloody hell didn't anyone tell me i can call this number direct???

6) called the mio helpdesk. same situation - got cut off after 20 mins. gave up after 2 tries.

7) the last i know, the password issue is still not resolved.

the inconvenience of not being able to check his email. if my dad's a rich businessman, would Singtel be able to afford to pay the lose of time and money because my dad has no access to his email???? what kind of bloody service is this????
no wonder they're forever "experiencing high call volumes" because people are just so unsatisfied with their service and wanna complain!

dad's friend promised to come over to fix my comp and my wireless connection, or lack of, last night. but he didn't turn up. dad came back and told me he'll come tonight (which he did) because he got home late. he could have just called and tell us that he';ll postpone instead of mum and i waiting at home like fools! decided not to blow my fuse at dad coz he'll just be affected. i'd already done enough screaming regarding points (1) to (5) and he knows i'm really really unhappy with Singtel.

should have listened to Moo and persuaded daddy to apply for max online instead :(

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met up with judith on thursday! :) will blog about it another day. :)

overdue update

CNY is family, food and fun with tiles!

This year's reunion dinner was spent at my eldest uncle's place. On my way there, I was listening to this song by Sandy Lam and I started missing my Grand-dad so much! Took everything within me to stop myself from crying on the bus.

First day of CNY started with gathering at eldest uncle's place since Grand-ma stays there now. And then to Garden of Remembrance to visit Grand-dad.

I'll let the pictures do the talking. Actually I'm too lazy to type. =P

Cousins!

Our leisure of choice =)

Cell CNY Reunion Dinner @ Su Lene's

Food lovingly prepared by Auntie Betty

Lo Hei!

Our first complete cell photo

Tai-Tai Day Out with Alisa @ Sentosa Spa and Resort

We just spent the day drinking tea and reading at the resort. The lotus pond is so calming!

Thammy and Chee Lip's Birthday Celebrations @ The Manhatten Fish Market and Swensen's

Giant Seafood Platter for 3 - Fried everything with fries and garlic rice. Really oily.. =P

Group pic - Thammy, Josh, Su-Lene, WeiLiang, Steve, Eugenia, Me, Shawn, Eunice, Youya, Chee Lip and Cookies&Cream birthday cake =)

Boon brought me to this lovely place before I went to meet Moo and he goes home on Sunday. =) I'm sure it's beautiful at night too!

If you haven't noticed, I chopped off my locks and dyed it a daker colour too in the name of vanity! =) Please tell me I look younger! =P

once bitten, twice masochistic

Some people just never learn... it's been 3 years... will history repeat itself ?......

Miss miss....

Moo left for KL this afternoon to spend Chinese New Year there. Miss him already.......

In the meantime, wishing all you reading my humble blog





Cool New Graphics - MySpace/Friendster

update

So many things have happened and I'm too lazy to write. =P

Last Wednesday till Friday was spent helping my God-bro paint his house. The kids' room is now orange and pink, with a bit of lime green to add some contrast, because Feon and Reon like Pooh and Piglet. The master bedroom's lilac and pink, which reminds us of a baby's room. The living room's painted my favourite colour - lime green! =) My arms and legs were really aching but it was really satisfying to see their faces!

The lil ones in their new room

Saturday was Su-lene's surprise birthday at HV Crystal Jade. =) After which was supper with Chris, Abi, Shannon, Josh and Boon at Al-Ameen. Seriously sinful!

Sunday was fun! Luncheon at BK with 1/2 of my cell. It was quite nice talking to Carmen and Irwin actually. Ice-cream later with Lisa and Boon at Gelare's.

Later, Thanksgiving cum farwell steamboast and lo hei at Izzy's! Mummy Chia and "Boss" prepared a spread for us! We had different types of fish, scallops, prawns, lots of vege, golden mushrooms, crabsticks, glass noodles, egg noodles, fishballs and bird balls (eggs lah)! Even with SK, Josco, Aman and myself, we barely finished 1/4 of what was laid out for us! And sweet Izzy made dessert for us! Peaches, grapes and strawberries dipped in dark chocoloate and drizzled with white chocolate. Yum!! Salmon Yu Sheng from Hooked On Heads was really yummy too! Another sinful day! For more info, please refer to Chris' blog. =)





Monday's relationship talk was quite good, though The Most Honourable Mrs Durai pointed out that a lot of essential points on dating and marriage were not discussed. This ended with yet another round of supper and drinks at Clementi.


Chrissy left on Tuesday. We made him a collage and wrote lil notes which were pinned onto the other side of the board because someone brilliantly pasted the photoson the wrong side. =P Aunty Julia told me to keep the faith in my job search, which was really sweet of her. =)

Was in JB with my God-bro before I went to the airport to send Chris off. Thank God for Dunkin' Donuts! If they hadn't made me so happy, I would have blown their heads off! No offense to Malaysians k? I'm just ranting.

So me God-bro was taking a smoke before we make our way up to the immigration counters on our way back to Sg. He then threw the cigarette butt on the floor. A Malaysian policeman then approached him and asked for his I/C. He was broght into a room and told that he was littering and the fine was RM250. God-bro said that he was in a rush and that he didn't have that much money with him. The officer hesitated and asked how much he has. God-bro said he has about RM20 and he needs some money to go home as well. Officer then pointed to a basket under the table and told God-bro to put his RM20 there. I was UTTERLY DISGUSTED!! I was fuming mad but God-bro told me that they had to resort to corruption because they're not paid enough. I mean, if the government's not going to respect their "law-enforcers" enough to pay them more than a meagre wage, then no one is going to respect them as keepers of the law!

This aside, we went up to the immigration counters. I happen to receive a call then and I picked it up. The immigration officer told me to end the call and show some respect. So I did and I asked, "Show respect to what?" He was so worked up and told me that I'm not showing them respect by talking on the phone in front of them. What???? I rolled my eyes so vigorously I thought my eyeballs were gonna fall out! The one thing that was keeping me from retaliating and making sarcastic remarks which he'll probably not understand is the Dunkin' Donuts in my stomach. I don't need to take this s*** since I'm contributing to your GDP! What atrocity!

*Deep breaths*

unique and distinct

Was struck my the message Pastor Lewis sahred yesterday on the salt and light passage in Matthew 5:13-16. What impacted me most is the picture he showed us which is a group of youths laying hands and praying for another youth. The surprise was that the picture was taken at a Buddhist Sunday Youth Group Meeting!

God has called us to be unique and distinct in the world we live in, in our schools, our universities and our workplaces. What will make us stand out as the salt of the earth and light of the world? By the way we pray? By going on outreach/humanitarian trips? By attending services on Sundays?

We have a loving and personal God who wants to have a relationship with us. He is able to relate to us because He had come down to earth to be among filth like us. Because of His grace and mercy. Because of His great love. We are unique and distinct because we have a relationship with our Heavenly Father. We do not have to do anything to earn His love and salvation. And we're compelled to love His people because He has first loved us. We're commanded to make disciples, not converts.

You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled by men.
You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.

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By the way, we made 2 people really happy yesterday! =)

Happy 18th Birthday, Siew Keong! and What A Great "Supplies", Chris! =)

Not forgetting..
Great work, Lions! On winning the ASEAN Cup!

lesson learnt in the midst of despair

I was really upset yesterday about what my god-bro's relative, T, said about my weight and how people can get fatter just coz they hang around me. U think what?! Obesity can spread through air ah??? I was so upset that I told Moo that at least I can diet, but that idiot needs an Extreme Makeover! Have you seen one of those t-shirts which says "I'm fat but you're ugly. And I can diet!"?

Then I remembered how this guy, LKB, who was a fellow band member in secondary school, who also happened to study at JI, used to tease me about my weight as well. And me trying not to burst out crying in the canteen.

And I was crying out to God and basically just whining to Him. He then reminded me that people put others down to hide insecurities, to make themselves feel better. Aren't we all guilty of this? I'm totally guilty! One of the things I really like is sacarstic humour, which basically means I think it's funny when someone puts someone else down. I use sacarstic humour when I try to be funny as well. I guess I mistook sacarsm for wit.

Another thing I do all the time is I deliberately pick out physical or character flaws of beautiful people! Knowing that we're all not perfect makes me feel better about myself! Knowing that Fiona Xie is cross-eyed, and that Jessica Alba has fat genes make me feel good! Alright, secret's out! It's quite sick isn't it?

I'm still learning. Like how thoughts of T's and LKB's failures are popping in my head now. Okie. I'm trying really hard to suppress any unkind words which are at the tip of my tongue.
Hey! Where's the love? Jesus commanded us to love our neighbours (good and bad ones), and to build one another up with encouraging words.

So let's! =)

Met Grandma for lunch this afternoon. I'm happy!

strange phenomenons

Phenomena #1: Getting comfy in public

Spotted this Korean/Japanese man feeling rather at home at the foodcourt at Terminal 1, where there was a sign which explicitly states that such behaviour is not allowed there. Believe it or not.

Phenomena #2: Attack of the Trojan Kind

Kaspersky Online Virus Scan revealed, after scanning only 73% of my computer, that I have 10 viruses in 26 of my files! All because I opened a .wmv file my godmum sent me. And it's really slowing my comp down, amongst other things it's/they're doing to my comp. It took me 30 minutes to type out and post this entry because my stupid computer is prcessing at a ridiculous pace!

Phenomena #3: Getai Fever

I have no idea why getais exist at all! And why they have them all year round! And why they're so freaking LOUD! Are they afraid that fans in JB wouldn't be able to hear them from Bukit Batok??? Coupled with middle-aged women with screeching voices belting out retro Hokkien songs, unbearable is an understatement! It's driving me nuts!

Messages from afar

Just spoke to a friend from Myanmar on MSN and he was telling me how his visa application was rejected by the Australian Embassy. He felt like a "poor Burmese bastard". It really broke my heart because he was crushed by the rejection and he was going to take his own life, if not for the fact that it's a sin.

He sounded so lost! And says that he doesn't feel God. He's angry that he's been rejected because he "lacks financial capacity". He lamented that he's suppose to be an heir in God's kingdom but man sees him as a poor Burmese dude.

Managed to share some verses and pray with him. To reaffirm his faith and encourage him to continue trusting in our Father.
I'm in turn reaffirming my own faith - to trust DADDY God to provide me with a job (and my nam-pyung.. heh..) soon.

It was good just talking to him. Thank God for technology! I wish I could be there for him though. He has been such an encouraging friend and brother! And his love for people is just so contagious! I feel really bad for him because he really was looking forward to go to Australia to study. And him spending so much money on his visa application and having to endure the humiliation for being poor. I can only imagine what he's going through.
Shared with him Gen 50:20 on God's redeeming power.

Hope he was encouraged and pray that God will show His sovereignty in this situation. =)

** Wanted to upload pictures but my comp's screwed up by some .wmv file I downloaded. Sigh. Think it's infected again.

January babies I

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, IRENE!

&

HAPPY BELATED BRITHDAY, MUMMY!

what's a boy gotta do?

He got into SJI.
Wanted to appeal to ACS(I).
But he didn't because mummy dearest, who insisted that he put it as his first choice eventhough he's 1 point short, decided that school fees is going to be a problem. Did this even cross her mind when she INSISTED that he put ACS(I), SJI and Hwa Chong as his first 3 choices? He says it's alright because it'll be more embarrassing to be kicked out of the school due to his inability to pay his school fees.
Now he's got to catch the bus from his place at 0545 hrs in order to be in school on time. And daddy dearest is not freaking taking up the responsibility to drive him to school.
He wanted to join interesting CCAs but some require expensive equipment which he cannot afford.
Heard the school's going to test them on their swimming abilities next week. If they fail the test, they'll have to take swimming lessons at $30/lesson. Praying that he'll pass or that Edusave can be used to pay for the 10-week lessons.
He's got a $200 bursary which he is going to collect with my mum because he doesn't want daddy dearest to go with him. He doesn't know. He can't know. He's already inconsistent in paying the alimony every month.
He is barely 13. And having to contend with financial problems. All because of certain choices his stupid parents chose to make. Abandoning 2 kids, ages 12 and 19, with a 74-year-old grandma , who has to cook and clean, is not the most responsible thing to do, is it?

Are there any other ways they can seek financial support besides bursaries? Don't know whether he's eligible for scholarships though.

Sorry. Am just ranting. It's really unfair for a brilliant and sensible boy to miss out on opportunities because he can't afford it.